Andrew and I celebrated our First Anniversary this past weekend. He rented us a quiet little cabin about and hour from home and we went to an Arts and Crafts Festival, Flea Marketing, and had a nice candlelit dinner. After dinner we stayed at the table and a Nashville band, called The Vallows (a rock/pop/country duo) played us live music (loved them). It was a wonderful little getaway, that both of us agreed helped us to wind down. This week is also the week before my summer semester finals, so a relaxed getaway was very appreciated!
As I said, ideas are a little cloudy this week so I thought I would keep it simple and share my To-Do list before the baby comes... This list was compiled from babycenter.com, I just added in personal lists, also.
(We are 19 weeks this Wednesday!- - Biggest change I have noticed in myself is entering the nesting phase, either that or I have gone completely mad---(Who refolds all the clothes in a dresser or linens in a linen closet?!?)
First Trimester-
Make sure you're really pregnant.Take your prenatal vitaminI am taking Flinstone Chewables once, daily and a prenatal called Foltx- Investigate health insurance
Choose a caregiverDr. CarrMake a prenatal appointmentConsider your options for prenatal testingOur decision was against.Start taking belly photos- Make a baby budget
- Buy new
brasand undies - Start a daily ritual to connect with your baby
Start a baby name list
Second Trimester-
- Explore a prenatal exercise class
Learn about second trimester visits and testsTrack weight gainUsing an IPad app to help with this-Pregnancy HDShop for maternity clothesA neighbor brought over her entire maternity wardrobe to help myself to!Consider a professional labor coachPlan some adult-timeStart moisturizing your bellyI am using Covenant Garden Sanctuary Spa "Mum To Be"Narrow your baby name listDecide whether you'll find out baby's genderWe are gonna be surprised!Keep a pregnancy journal*Need to be better about doing it every night!Look into childbirth classesScheduled for an evening class at the end of NovemberDo some financial planning- Prepare pets--For now, plan to set up swing and let them go in and out of nursery as they please.
- Get teeth cleaned--Have appointment in October
Start sleeping on your side- Harder than it sounds! Using a pregnancy pillow full-time now.Create a baby registry- Amazon.comMaternity leave- We plan to have me stay home permanently raising kiddos! I start staying home the beginning of September (that is what my employer and I agreed on)- Tackle Home Improvement Projects-
- Put up Nursery Wall Decor
- Stain bookshelf, map frame, and wall shelf
- DIY dresser project
- Stain back deck of house
- Replace back slider door
- Finish Guest bath (Ceiling strip and Tub Seal)
- Keep record of Pregnancy moments to share with your child
Third Trimester
- Learn about Third trimester visits and tests
Consider additional classesWe are taking child safety & I will be taking a breastfeeding class in Dec.- Prepare for breastfeeding
- Choose a doctor for baby
- Assemble Baby gear
- Swing
- Decide on/Set up temp and
permanentsleeping areas for baby - Study labor stages and coping with labor pain
- Create a birth plan- Started, just need to do a little research before finalizing...
- Wash baby's clothing and bedding
Start lining up helpers- We plan to welcome anyone down for the birth and visits at the hospital, but will only have one set of parents down at a time to stay in our home and visit us at home.- Maternity Pictures-Planning to do our own, then get family pics done professionally?
Consider Baby costs and ways to saveSaving for us so far is me staying home, breastfeeding, and using cloth diapers- Read up on baby care
- Pack bags for hospital- Mommy's, Daddy's, and Baby's
- Load up on household supplies
- Deep house clean- GG (My Grandma) is coming down for Thanksgiving to help!
- Make frozen dinners--I would LOVE suggestions and or recipes!
- Tour hospital or birth center
- Install baby car seat
- Make a plan for when labor starts
Think about birth announcementsHoping to make my own, we'll see...Make a call list for updates on laborFinalize baby name list- Exercise Patience!
Next week's post will be short, but will have all Belly Pics to celebrate 20 weeks & 1/2 way!